Premarital & Post-Marital Counseling
Build a Foundation for Forever
Offered through Lux Counseling Services
At Ruban Bleu Weddings, we believe that your wedding is just the beginning—and a strong foundation starts with open hearts, honest conversations, and intentional preparation.
That’s why we’re proud to offer premarital and post-marital counseling sessions through our trusted partner, Dr. Pamela Pitts of Lux Counseling Services.
Meet Dr. Pamela Pitts
If you're searching for a space of true healing, restoration, and empowerment, look no further. Dr. Pamela Pitts combines clinical expertise with a deeply compassionate, spiritually grounded approach to counseling. Her sessions are more than conversations—they are sacred spaces for transformation.
Dr. Pitts is known for her ability to hear beyond the words, equip couples with real tools for connection, and help them unpack the past while boldly stepping into their future together. Her calming presence and strategic methods create an environment where clarity, alignment, and deep emotional breakthroughs are not just possible—they’re expected.
Session Options & Packages
Foundations Session
Investment:
30 minutes – $30
1 hour – $60
A focused session for couples who want to explore a specific concern, gain insight into an area of their relationship, or prepare for marriage with personalized support. Great for check-ins, first-time sessions, or follow-up conversations.
The Vow Session
Investment: $60
A powerful one-hour session designed to help couples connect more deeply, align on expectations, and strengthen communication. Ideal for those seeking clarity, confidence, and tools for a smooth transition into marriage.
Private 1-hour session
Communication tools
Relationship check-in
Expectations mapping
The Ever After Series
Investment: $180
A comprehensive, three-session series that walks couples through the core areas of a lasting marriage. Together, you’ll uncover values, strengthen your emotional bond, and create a shared vision for your future.
Three private 1-hour sessions
Communication and conflict resolution
Goal-setting and relationship planning
Optional faith-based guidance
Customized support based on your unique dynamic
What You’ll Explore
Communication
Develop healthy, clear communication skills and tools for tough conversations.
Values & Beliefs
Explore your core beliefs, religious views, and life philosophies.
Marriage Goals & Vision
Create a shared blueprint for your life together.
Conflict Resolution
Learn how to handle disagreements respectfully and constructively.
Roles & Expectations
Align on household responsibilities, career goals, and lifestyle balance.
Personal History & Baggage
Address past experiences or traumas that may impact your relationship.
Financial Matters
Discuss budgeting, debt, money habits, and shared financial goals.
Intimacy & Sexuality
Have open, honest conversations about needs, expectations, and desires.
Family & In-Laws
Understand each other’s family dynamics and set healthy boundaries.
Children & Parenting
Discuss parenting styles, future family plans, and expectations.
Why counseling matters before and after marriage
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To identify potential areas of conflict early
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To develop strategies for navigating disagreements
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To improve communication and problem-solving skills
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To create deeper mutual understanding and emotional safety
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To lay the foundation for a healthy, sustainable marriage
Premarital counseling is a proactive, empowering step toward not just a beautiful wedding—but a beautiful life together.
Who This Is For
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Engaged couples preparing for marriage
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Newlyweds adjusting to life together
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Long-term couples wanting a relationship reset
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Couples navigating specific challenges (conflict, past trauma, intimacy, etc.)
Client Testimonials
Jasmine & Cory, June 2023
“Dr. Pitts helped us build the tools we needed before we even realized we needed them.”
Morgan James, NY
“We left every session feeling stronger, heard, and closer.”
Lisa Driver, MI
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